Business is Personal
For a long time (well, most of my life), I have lived under the impression that look here, hey, “it’s just business, it’s not personal”. Somewhere I found myself under the impression that business is just business AND personal time, yeah, that is completely separate. Well friends, whether it’s the fact that I am ever closer to turning the big three-ohh, combined with the patient mentorship of an incredibly successful entrepreneur, I have taken a large step back.
Business is based on relationships. They provide the passionate connection so often needed when major issues are at stake. They enable that instantaneous glance between two people who know by looking at each other the action they have to take. They provide the spark that moves and motivates teams. Emotions inspire loyalty to a cause. Emotions help unify leaders with their management and encourage collaboration.
A business is a cause; people advocate for the brand, the product or service and a special way of doing business that represents that cause. All of the above are ways that positive emotions help businesses grow.
Being a “flip-flopper” is not always a bad thing. A person should be able to change their minds, changing course as they grow. My past successes have been forged through sheer determination and focus. Right and Wrong. Black and White. It served me well in my teens and twenties, but now, those traits make me appear empty, cold, and myopic. Most importantly, I think it limits my potential.
I am a business woman. I love business and I want to be exceptional with it. But that’s not all. I want to be an amazing wife and mother. I want my children and husband to feel loved and given the keys to success with unwavering support.
Zebras and Dogs
Alright, a Zebra can’t change their stripes, it’s in the DNA. But a dog CAN learn a new trick. I know I’m gifted to come from a family of successful entrepreneurs. Examples of hard work and sacrifice were always ever abundant. What I was missing was feeling.
Learning to recognize limitations, failures and weaknesses is not all doom and gloom, people, NO! It’s the mature step to deep, personal understanding, to maximizing your potential, to knowing what you are good at and excelling. It’s learning to seek mentorship. It’s asking for help.
Business –much like life- is all about balance, trust, passion and heart.